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by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:43 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

Rothgar, that is clearly your opinion, and you're welcome to it, but it's not the only opinion worth listening to here.

I'd like to ask everyone kindly back off centering this discussion on me. It's distracting from the topic at hand.
by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 6:50 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

What I'm gathering at this stage is that people in general *do* agree blackballing is wrong, but they may disagree on what blackballing actually is or feel that dealing with it is futile. I'd love for people to tell us what they believe is blackballing, and what they believe is not blackballing and ...
by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:54 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

I've sadly seen examples of both, and I think both are harmful. The toughest ones are when people think they're not blackballing, and to that end I agree with The_Last_Good_Dragon that we need to be explicitly clear about what blackballing is, maybe with examples. It is very easy to vent and cross t...
by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:45 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

I have no idea what you're referring to with regarding to sharing snippets of anything, please contact me in game and show me what you're referring to? Please do not pick a public fight with me. I do think that it is worthwhile to define blackballing clearly, because I do agree that perhaps there's ...
by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:34 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Discord/Tell/OOC Comms Removal Discussion
Replies: 8
Views: 790

Re: Discord/Tell/OOC Comms Removal Discussion

I played TI without tells back in Tam's time, and have mixed feelings about it. On one hand, it was some of the best RP of my life because there were no distractions in game, no expectation that I engage with people OOCly, etc. I didn't feel like I needed community ties to be on equal footing with e...
by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:13 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

I'm very glad to see engagement on this thread, though I'm sad to see that a lot of posts here focused on Reddit example solely. It was only one example in a generalized series of examples, only one or two of which could even actually be construed as being about me. While I am not without an ego, th...
by Kinaed
Sun Jul 22, 2018 12:41 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

http://www.ti-legacy.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=1308&p=8657&hilit=blackballing#p8657 This is the thread the last time this seemed to come to loggerheads in the community (though as this was before I began to play the impetus for this original post is a tad beyond me.) I think a healthier thing ...
by Kinaed
Sat Jul 21, 2018 11:59 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

Hehe, I imagine you're correct in terms of responding to that (I think) Reddit thread (which I haven't read). I don't think anyone would advocate responding there as a wise course of action. That was only an example to set context. All of the examples that I raised in my initial post were brought to...
by Kinaed
Sat Jul 21, 2018 9:43 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Re: Blackballing

Why respond? It's like challenge pissing. No one wins if you wind up getting into it. Whether it's worth responding is something I'm trying to ascertain, which is part of the player advice I've sought. In a way, posting this note in and of itself is a response, however, shedding light on the behavi...
by Kinaed
Sat Jul 21, 2018 7:44 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Blackballing
Replies: 58
Views: 4972

Blackballing

Greetings Everyone, There's a few things on my mind I want to go over, and I'm looking for player opinions in general. Firstly, if you haven't read HELP RULES recently, please do. Some people may have heard that someone posted a juvenile review on TMC recently saying I should have a stroke and finge...